Tantric Massage in Northumbria (Alnwick)

Located 40 minutes north of Newcastle & 30 minutes south of Berwick with Tantric Connections

My Tantric massage sessions take place in my private retreat space in Alnwick, Northumbria. Nestled within a discreet private complex with no neighbours, this sanctuary offers complete privacy, peace, and stillness, the perfect environment to exhale and return to yourself.   This is a private self contained stand alone retreat centre where discretion and privacy is assured.   There is plenty of private parking, and showers are available before and after your session.

The therapy room is warm, softly lit, quiet, and beautifully prepared with gentle music and the calming scent of essential oils, and a wood burner in the colder months, creating a space where your body can settle and your nervous system can soften.

Before the Session

All sessions for a Tantric Massage are a minimum of two hours, this work requires spaciousness, and I do not offer shorter appointments.

When you arrive, I welcome you personally. We sit together for a few minutes to talk about what brings you, anything you’d like me to know, and any questions you may have.  You’re welcome to look through my folder containing my training certifications, insurance, and my membership with The Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS). Your remaining balance is also paid at this point.

You may shower beforehand, and fresh towels are provided.

Once we start the session, we take a moment to settle and slow down. You’re invited to set an intention for your session, something gentle to guide the energy of the experience.
We also talk through boundaries, both yours and mine, so that the space feels safe, grounded, and clear.

We begin with simple Tantric breathwork and a short meditation to help your body soften, open, and receive.

During the Massage

You undress in your own time and lie face-down on the futon. Using warm natural almond oil, I begin by massaging your back and body, guiding you into deep relaxation and sensual awareness.

The intention is to open your body to sensation, aliveness, pleasure, and the natural flow of energy.  Many people experience tingles, waves, or subtle energetic movements, all completely natural.

You are free to move gently with the sensations in your body. Nothing is forced. Your body leads the way.

If it supports your experience, I may include sage, energetic clearing, or gentle drumming, always discussed first and always consensual.

At a natural point, you will be invited to turn over so the massage can continue on the front of your body.

A Few Words About Tantric Massage

Tantric massage is a deeply honouring, relaxing, and sensual experience, an invitation to feel your body in new and expanded ways.  While the massage includes the entire body, including the sexual organs, genital touch is always optional.

Tantra is about presence, breath, connection, and the unfolding of your own erotic energy, not pressure, not performance, and not goals.

People often ask me, “What is a Tantric massage actually like?”
The truth is: if you feel a curiosity, come and experience it for yourself.
It is something the mind cannot understand,  only the body can experience.

Lingam Massage (Optional)

For men

The Lingam, the “wand of light”,  is honoured as a channel of life-force energy.
If you choose to include Lingam massage, the intention is not orgasm, but expanded pleasure, sensation, connection, and awareness.

Consent is always sought beforehand.
You simply receive, without pressure, expectation, or performance.

Yoni Massage (Optional)

For women

Yoni massage is a deeply honouring invitation to reconnect with your feminine sexual energy, pleasure, and embodiment.

Your boundaries shape the experience.
Consent is always explicit.
The focus is presence, connection, and sensation, not goal-oriented sexuality.

Prostate Massage (Optional)

For those who choose it, prostate massage can deepen sensation, open energy, and expand pleasure.
As with all parts of the session, it is optional, discussed beforehand, and guided entirely by your comfort.

Ejaculation, Sexual Arousal & Tantric Principles

Sexual arousal may naturally arise during a Tantric massage, but it is not the intention of the work.
I practise strictly within Tantric principles, I do not chase orgasm, and I do not offer orgasm-focused service as part of the tantric massage.

The goal is presence, breath, awareness, and expanded sensation throughout the whole body.

However, I also never shame the body.
If arousal or ejaculation happens, it is simply welcomed as a natural expression of energy. You are always free to tell me if you feel it approaching, whether you choose to breathe through it or allow it to happen.

There is no judgement, only presence.

One-Way Touch & Receiving

Tantric massage is one-way touch, from me to you. This creates a deeply safe and nourishing experience where you can fully receive.

For clarity:

• I remain clothed in bra and pants
• I do not undress
• There is no two-way touch
• There is no kissing, oral sex, or intercourse
• The experience is centred entirely around your body, breath, and pleasure

This boundary ensures safety, clarity, and integrity.

Integration Time

At the end of the session, I leave you resting on the futon for 5–10 minutes to absorb and integrate the energetic shifts. This quiet time is essential for grounding.

When I return, we share reflections or questions.
You’re also welcome to shower before leaving the retreat.

Possible Benefits of Regular Tantric Massage

Visitors often report:

• Increased libido
• Heightened sexual energy and awareness
• A deeper connection to self
• More expansive orgasmic capacity
• Improved ejaculation control
• Greater emotional clarity
• A richer sense of intimacy with themselves and others

Each session is unique, guided by your intention and the energy of the moment.

Availability

I offer sessions from 10am to 9pm on the days I work.
Advance booking is recommended, as spaces are limited and fill quickly.

Before You Arrive

Please avoid smoking, drugs, alcohol, or heavy/spicy meals before your session.
If I feel someone is under the influence, I will not invite them into the space.

A gentle reminder: this is one-way touch only, and I do not take outfit or clothing requests. I dress comfortably and appropriately for the session.

Respecting boundaries allows the experience to unfold safely and beautifully.
If boundaries are not respected, the session will be ended.

Namaste,
Amanda