FAQ
Is your service confidential and discreet?
Yes. Discretion is at the heart of my work. What happens in session stays in session, and if you wish, I’m happy to sign a confidentiality agreement for your peace of mind.
Is an appointment necessary?
Yes. I need at least two hours to prepare the space and myself before a tantric massage. It’s always best to book a few days ahead, as I only see one or two clients per day to keep each experience spacious and unhurried.
Do I need to be naked?
Not necessarily. Many clients choose nudity because it supports openness and presence, but it is always your decision. You can wear as much or as little as feels comfortable for you in the moment.
Are you, Amanda, naked during a session?
No. I remain dressed throughout. My role is to create a safe and professional container so you can relax into your own process.
Can I touch you?
No. The focus is on you and your journey. Touch flows one way — from me to you. While intimate touch is not permitted, simple gestures like holding my hand or touching my arm or legs up to my knees is fine but if it becomes anything more than that I will gently remind you to come back to yourself
Can I book without paying a deposit?
No. A deposit is required to secure your appointment. This ensures your time is reserved and held with care.
Is this the same as sex work?
No. My work is not sexual services. Tantric Awakening is about presence, embodiment, and expanding your capacity for connection and pleasure — in a safe and respectful way.
How should I prepare?
Come with openness and curiosity. Please avoid heavy meals, alcohol, or recreational substances beforehand so that you can be fully present.
Do I need experience in tantra?
Not at all. Whether this is your first step into tantra or you’ve been exploring for years, sessions are tailored to where you are.
Who do you work with?
All genders and identities are welcome.
Can I make suggestions for the session?
Yes — if I feel comfortable with them. Let me know what you enjoy (perhaps the sensation of nails on your skin, being stroked on the face, or feet pressing into you) as well as anything you’d rather avoid. I’m also happy to play music of your choice via Spotify.
Do you travel to hotels?
No. I only offer incall sessions in my prepared space. The environment is part of the experience, and I take time to set it up with care.
Do you smoke?
No.
Can I bring a bottle of wine?
No.
Can I shower before or after?
Of course. I provide fresh towels, toiletries, and a welcoming shower space.
What’s the minimum age?
I only work with clients aged 21 and over.
Where are you based?
I’m based in rural Northumberland, between Alnwick and Seahouses.
Do any of your sessions include sex?
No. None of my offerings involve sex.
Will you go out with me?
No. I don’t meet clients outside of booked sessions.
Can I ask you to wear something specific?
No. I choose my own attire — usually a dress with lingerie underneath. I don’t accept outfit requests.
